Met jongeren over gokken praten

The digital world is constantly evolving, and so are the ways young people encounter gambling. While starting these conversations might feel daunting, opening up dialogue helps build trust and understanding. Here's how you can have meaningful discussions about gambling with young people in your care.

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Create natural openings

Rather than sitting down for a ‘serious talk’, look for everyday moments to start the conversation. Whether it’s a gambling advert during a football match or in-game purchases in their favourite games, these provide natural opportunities to explore their thoughts and share your perspective. These relaxed moments often lead to the most meaningful exchanges.

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Keep it real

Rather than lecturing, share honest information about how gambling works, including the reality that operators design games to make profits, not winners. If you have relevant personal experiences, sharing these thoughtfully can help make the conversation more meaningful.

Build understanding together

Ask open questions about what they think about gambling and listen without judgment. You might be surprised by their insights. This collaborative approach helps you understand their perspective while creating space to gently challenge any misconceptions, like the idea that gambling is an easy way to make money. The key is to guide, not dictate – helping them develop their own critical thinking about gambling and its risks.

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Focus on empowerment

Rather than simply warning about risks, help young people develop the skills they need to make informed choices. Explore together how gambling companies use advertising and game design to encourage spending, and discuss strategies for staying in control.

Many young people will never experience gambling harms, but knowing the warning signs helps you offer support early if needed. Changes in behaviour, mood, or spending patterns could signal that gambling is becoming harmful. Trust your instincts – if something doesn’t feel right, it’s worth having a conversation.

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